My Favorite Things
Everyone has favorites. Favorite color. Favorite food. Favorite TV show. Favorite book. Favorite movie. In fact, many people ask these questions to strangers or new acquaintances in the hopes of getting to know one another better. As a married couple, spouses are expected to know each of their spouse's favorites.
Recently my husband and I changed churches. We changed for many reasons, but the top two were to find a church closer to our house and to find a church that we could call ours. We found that church quickly and God has plugged us right in. It's been wonderful. With change, negative, sometimes painful, reality comes in to play. I miss my family. I've never gone to a church apart from my parents before and this is new for me. I miss all my friends at that church. I miss the ministries that I served in. I miss the pastor. And, I really miss our old Sunday School class.
With Valentine's Day approaching, our previous SS class discussed having a Valentine's social and playing the Newlywed Game. My husband and I have never played this game and we were really looking forward to it. We've been quizzing each other and doing our best to make sure we know each other's favorites.
Not until last night did we even talk about what it would be like to give up one of our favorites. I joined the choir at our new church and my husband attends the pastor's Bible study, He told me last night that the study was on "Suffering Prayer." The pastor talked about Jesus and His 40 days of fasting and praying. 40 days! That's more than a month! I couldn't imagine having no food for 40 days. It seems almost physically impossible. The pastor told the group last night that doctors have discovered that the body can live without food for 40 days. By day 41, their body starts to deteriorate. That seems pretty amazing how meticulous God is.
Well, I don't have enough willpower to go without food for 40 days, so my husband and I talked about the ONE favorite food that we could give up for 40 days. My husband has decided to give up sodas for 40 days -- which is HUGE for him. I can't tell you how many sodas he drinks a day. As for me, well, I decided to give up chocolate. It seems beyond impossible for me to do it, but that's the point of this fast. As I suffer through my withdrawals (and believe me, there WILL be severe withdrawals) I can pray for the Lord to give me the strength and fill that void. It will bring me closer to God. It will force me in His word. It will force me to communicate with Him.
So, this is DAY 1. From today until March 20, I can have NO chocolate! That's a LOOOONNNNGGGG way off, isn't it! With God, all things are possible -- even a chocoholic giving up chocolate!

